Avoid Drama with Friends

Being in fights with other people can cause unnecessary stress and aggravation in your life . Because who really wants to have to worry about other people being mad at them , and sometimes even talking behind their backs ? I have to admit have not any fights with others, just experinced cursing someone who really annoyed me one time :)),follow these steps to avoid having drama in your life .

1. NEVER talk badly about other people behind their backs, no matter what. It may be a fun thing to do at the time, because there's a whole other group of people doing it, but most of the time it comes back to haunt you. The person will find out and if it's a friend of yours, it can cause a fight.
2. Be nice to everyone! There's no reason to be mean to others, even if they start something with you first. It'll keep everything more peaceful and calm that way.
3. Occasionally when it's needed, try putting other's before yourself. Like, if your friend is having troubles at home, and they need to get out of the house and just talk, maybe you can stop what you're doing (if you're doing something that isn't too important) and go help your friend. People will think of you as a better person, and won't really have a reason to be mad at you.
4. STAY OUT OF OTHER PEOPLE'S DRAMA! There's no reason for you to get into the middle of someone else's fight. Let them work it out on their own. Because whenever people do this, even if it's just to help a friend, you usually get dragged into it and end up having people turned against you in one way or another (this doesn't apply to putting other's before yourself, in some situations you really can't).

Note: If you fight fire with fire, all you get is a bigger fire.

If you do get into an unexpected fight with a friend, try to resolve it as soon as possible, before it gets out of control and something small turns into you losing a good friend of yours. If you hear someone talking badly about one of your friends, the best you can do is pretty much just let it go . I know the person is a good friend and all, but if you go tell them what you heard, it may get out that you're the one that told your friend about it, causing other people to get mad at you. Don't let other's walk all over you. Putting people before yourself occasionally is okay. But letting them walk all over you because of it is not okay. Lying about things is bad. Its never a good thing, sometimes the truth hurts but lying hurts more.

There are some people out there that no matter what you do or how nice you are that will just start stuff with you for no reason at all. These people are just full of drama and you should just ignore them and not have anything to do with them. Don't lie all the time, only when you desperately need to. I know lying is wrong, but sometimes you just have to do it. But don't do it too much or you WILL get caught. Don't go on jeremy kyle.

Personal, One Word Tag & Spread The love tag award

Got these three tags from David some bloggers called him Mr"D". Anywho, thanks david for including me on your list.

The rules are simple:

1. Open this website: Personality Test

2. Take the Personality Quiz. (It's very short and easy really!)

3. Copy paste the result to your blog.

4. Tag as many friends you can and link to the friend who tagged you!

Here are the results:

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education
Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.

The right job for you:
You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.

How do you view success:
Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

I must say this quiz is very interesting, I enjoy doing it.
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One Word Tag:

1. Where is your cell phone? Desk
2. Your hair? Highlighted with brown and blond :))
3. Your mother? What about my Mother? yeah she is still alive
4. Your father? So is he
5. Your favorite food? Chicken chowmien
6. Your dream last night? None
7. Your favorite drink? Water/Pepsi
8. Your dream/goal? That would be having my own house by the water looking view.
9. What room you are in? Study room
10. Your hobby? Taking picture
11. Your fear? Sailing
12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Earth I guess (lol)
13. Where were you last night? Home
14. Something that you aren’t? Talkative
15. Muffins? Banana definitely
16. Wish list item? Car
17. Where you grew up? Philippines
18. Last thing you did? Pay bills at Comcast
19. What are you wearing? Jacket
20. Your TV? Still works :)
21. Your pets? Dog
22. Friends? Best!Don't have one right now.Lose truck of her.
23. Your life? Complicated
24. Your mood? Lightly bad
25. Missing someone? My kids ( long story)
26. Car? Hyundai Genesis
27. Something you’re not wearing? Earring
28. Your favorite store? JCP
29. Your favorite color? Brown
30. When is the last time you laughed? Not sure, been so depress lately
31. Last time you cried? Yesterday ( watching MJ's Funeral)
32. Who will resend this? None
33. One place that I go to over and over? CA
34. One person who emails me regularly? No one
35. My favorite place to eat? ElPolo Loco

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Spread The Love Award

Rules:

1. Copy the badge and put it on your blog.
2. Link back the person who passed you this award.
3. Spread the love to at least 10 or more bloggers.

I would be braking the rules, I would not be tagging any 10 blogger but instead I will be leaving this tag open for a grab. Any bloggers that feels like grabbing this tags, go right ahead. Happy tagging everyone.

Space Needle

Just cruising around is fun, that is if you like driving. We love driving, anywhere besicaly. We end up at the Mc donald down town Seattle, and cannot help taking this picture (image down below), the space needle is very close to Mc Donald. Isn't that gorgeous? I thought so.

Endurance Athletes

How to Celebrate Independence Day

The United States Independence Day is a holiday to celebrate the separation from Great Britain and declaring independence from the country. Traditionally, many people celebrate this day with picnics, parades, and fireworks. Independence Day lands on July 4th.

Hang a United States flag from your house roof, car, or get a flag pin to put on your clothes. Get someone to draw the flag on your cheek with washable finger paint. Some citizens choose to wear clothes that have the U.S. flag design on them.
Show your support by watching a local 4th of July parade in your community or city. Be sure to wear sunscreen and bring water, depending on how long you'll be in the sun for. Get into the parade spirit by waving back at the participants or clapping while U.S. veterans pass by.

Enjoy a barbecue or picnic with family or friends. Get together around at least 1 pm or so to spend the afternoon together. Traditionally, 4th of July food consists of hamburgers, hot dogs, and watermelon. Please remember if you are using public usage, such as parks or beaches, to clean after yourselves. Pop fireworks or attend a fireworks show provided by the city at night. Most states have laws against fireworks for personal use depending on the type or size of it. Some states also have laws pertaining to the time range citizens are allowed to pop fireworks, for example, everyone needs to stop by midnight or 1 am.

If you want to read on the history, Wikipedia has articles on the Declaration of Independence and the Continental Congress.Independence or 4th of July is considered a federal holiday. This means federal employees are considered to get their normal pay rate, in addition to holiday pay. Private banks, all schools, and non-federal businesses and offices are closed for this day.