Learn to laugh at yourself and you'll be much happier.Let it off and laugh about it. The first thing you should do if you are embarrassed in front of other people is to indicate to others that it was a joke. State to others that it never occurred to you that you are tormented over it. Just laugh loudly and say "That's funny!". People will acknowledge that you didn't take it seriously and they will definitely stop doing it because you didn't respond the way they want you to -- they want you to suffer. But at least you manage to "act" as if you were not suffering. Now, this really depends on what you're embarrassed about.
Think about your problem carefully. When you go back to your comfort zone -- your room -- just take a moment to think how did that incident happened. Are you always careless? Consider ways on how to correct the problem. Improve your personality. Try to be more aware of what's happening around you if you are always careless.
About 99% of the time, things aren't as bad as you think. For instance, if your little brother told your date that you still sleep with a stuffed animal - Your date may do so as well, and so it may not be as embarrassing.People have dealt with embarrassment before, and so you will be able to handle it, too, as long as you have faith in yourself and can understand how to deal with your embarrassment.Don't be embarrassed over trivial things. Things that seem oh-so-important now; oh no, that girl has the same top as you; will be totally forgotten when you're older. Try not to yell at people for no reason, for they may think you are crazy and you might become embarrassed.
Embarrassment can cause a person to blush! This may ruin your "don't care" look. Take a deep breath, and try to cool down .If you say things that are really mean, you could get hurt and become embarrassed. That is when you make your own decisions. Do not continue to ignore people when they have stopped teasing you, so that you do not become embarrassed from ignoring the person for no reason.
Deal With Embarrassment
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Posted by Jane at 4:19 PM 0 comments
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